Thanks J, that doesn't directly answer my question but obviously bears considering.
The two main points of understanding that I'm struggling with are the following: Occupant Density Factor
Do different art forms (dance, music, theatre etc) have different ODF's associated with them? If yes, do I need to figure out occupancy limits for each of them and take the smallest, or is a general use calculation sufficient?
Do I calculate the stage area separately from the auditorium, or are they considered one room? Is this affected by having either a flat floor or raised stage?
Is there any distinction between an adult and a child in terms of what counts as an "occupant"?
Exit Capacity
When determining alternative exits, where should you measure the 45 degree angle from? Perhaps I'm being needlessly dumb, but surely every exit is potentially within 45 degrees of another depending on where you are in the room.